Fantasies are what they are. Is it immoral to have dreams of winning the lottery while at work? Is it wrong to fantasize about driving a Lamborghini when you're behind the wheel of your minivan? Then why would it be wrong to fantasize about someone who lives far from you, travels in completely different circles than you do, and would be virtually impossible to meet, let alone develop a relationship with that might culminate in sex?

If my girlfriend wants to dream of Sean Bean or John Corbett, that's absolutely fine with me. I really don't care, because ultimately it's my bed she shares, so therefore she's apparently satisfied with arrangements as they are, and sees me as comparable. I can live with that. *gryn*