Good question. My feeling is that if you need to keep some secrets personal to stay sane, and the other person can do likewise (no one-way street territories), that's OK.
On the other back-hoe operator, if you can share these fantasies while keeping a good sense of humor about it, that could work too.
On the other back-hoe operator, if you can share these fantasies while keeping a good sense of humor about it, that could work too.
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